12 Tips On How To Get A Guy To Like You Again
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Getting a partner who loves you the way you love him or even more than how you love him is every woman’s desire and wish. They say love is a beautiful thing. Yes, it is beautiful especially when the people involved are fully committed to the relationship and the standards they set for their relationship.
Explaining love is like explaining why you just ate a delicious meal, especially when you are deeply in love with your man. Asking yourself philosophical questions like What is love? Why am I in love with him? Won’t really cross your mind. Even without asking yourself these questions you are still fully convinced that you love your man. Not until something is wrong, we won’t really begin to analyse what love is.
So when you begin to ask yourselves these questions it is either you don’t feel loved as you would desire or you do not completely love your man.
I believe you are reading this article because you need tips on how you want to get your man to like you again but you wouldn’t want to be with your man if you still don’t have feelings for him.
There must have been one problem or the other which eventually led to you breaking up with him or vice versa. Your divorce will naturally born decreased level of happiness, emotional problems like depression, behavioural and social problems and many more, especially if he was the one that instigated the breakup.
These problems can be resolved if the right procedures are taken. But if you think your man is the best and only one that can complement you, and you wish to have him back as your partner, then you are on the right page. In this article you will read about tested and trusted tips that will make you get your man back. So sit back, enjoy and learn while you read this piece.
Breaking up with someone you love can cause heartache and discomfort to the soul. Especially when you consider the fact that getting a guy to like you again might not be that easy because there are so many factors you need to consider before you take the bold step of either letting the feelings you have for him die or fighting your way back into his life. So what ways can you get your man to like you again? Personal pride makes it hard for you walk up to him and tell him that you still love him and want him back, so it is important you get your mind prepared for an emotional battle. Yes, it is a big challenge but it is possible for him to love you again if the right steps are taken. Here are the tips to make your man love you again!
1.BE POSITIVE MINDED: Yeah, he might not love you anymore but it doesn’t mean he can’t love you again. It’s normal to feel devastated, heartbroken after a breakup especially when your man instigated the break up, But you need to stop sulking and think less about the past but start thinking more about the future (you and him reunited together) This attitude will always encourage and help you stay grounded even when things are not going your way. You need to also acknowledge the fact that he also has feelings just like everyone and his feelings is basically controlled by his heart. So if things are not going as you would have desired don’t lose hope at the first sight of the challenge. Be POSITIVE!
2.BE ARTLESS: You always have to remember the fact that you need to be yourself while trying to impress him. This might not sound sensible to you but it is one of the steps you have to take in order to get your man to like you again. Faking your attitude and personality won’t do you any good as it can even irritate him if you continue. Don’t forget you guys were once lovers, and he understands you. So if you try to play another person’s role just impress him, well I advise you to stop because it won’t be helpful on the long run and should be avoided. That is not to say you shouldn’t improve yourself or try to change the negative aspects of yourself. But DO NOT FAKE your personality. Don’t do what you can’t do and don’t act what you are not. If, he eventually finds out you will discover you did yourself more harm than good. Besides, a man that will love you will love you for who you are.
3.MAKE YOURSELF BUSY: In as much as you want him back, you should not be obsessed. The thought of wanting him back as soon as possible shouldn’t be the only thing that crosses your mind. So how do you keep yourself away from this obsession? “BE BUSY” Find a new hobby, work on how to improve yourself. While doing this you will that your new hobby or work will also occupy your mind, making you not to over think about him. And before you know it, you will discover you are no longer obsessed about him, but you will be able to balance the feelings you have for him and what you’ve found interest in.
4.KEEP YOUR DISTANCE (But Don’t Over do it): You may be asking yourself the question “why should I keep ever keep distance from the man I want?” This may sound strange but it is one of those things you need to do in order to win him back. Yeah, He might not like you anymore but you have to give him the impression that you are not overthinking about him and you want him back badly. Doing this will make him feel jealous (the degree is dependent on who the man really is) Don’t expect him to admit it though. But you need to understand that you don’t have to over do it, so you have to look for a way to balance things. This tip might even make him running after you again.
5.ALWAYS BE MINDFUL OF YOUR APPEARANCE: The importance of appearance in our daily activities can not be overemphasized talk less of trying to attract the guy you like. So for him to be interested in you again, you have to look attractive and presentable, you need to be mindful of your dressing, hair (it should be neat), jewelries and all your other clothing and accessories at all times. You definitely want to look attractive for him to fall in love with you, but you necessarily don’t have to over do it. Clothing that reveals cleavages and body hugging clothing are examples of these types. So wearing Clothing and style that best match the occasion you want to attend is the best way to look good and proper as other people starring at you won’t raise eyebrows. Even if, you just want to get something at the nearest location it’s best you look good. You never can tell you can bump into him. So be always mindful of your appearance.
6.STRIKE UP A CONVERSATION: When the time is right you make sure you guys start chatting again and you can instigate the chat with a “good morning” or “how are you doing” even a simple smile can do the trick. If you don’t see yourself on a regular basis you can send him a friendly text. It can be any form as long as it is just friendly and won’t be termed as anything hurtful or negative. If he’s a music lover you can say “Have you listened to the latest music by one of his favourite musician OR a question like “how are you doing” “it’s been a while” This will make him think about you again, and the memories you had together (the good or bad). It is important to note that while striking up a conversation you should not look desperate as this will may disgust him. Try as much as possible to keep the conversation short and direct. And if his reply isn’t as swift as you would expect or like, try to be patient and keep your cool. When he eventually answers you try not to respond immediately, let him have the impression that you have other things to attend to (he’ll do the guessing in his closet). If the chat is physical, let your chat be as short as possible, make sure you don’t do all the talking. By doing this you will have the opportunity to study his reaction during the conversation and also see if he will move to another topic. You never can tell, it can be something very interesting.
7.RETURN FLIRTY CONVERSATION: Conversion between you guys are getting on well and you have noticed the intimacy between you guys is starting to grow again. He’s smiling more often at every slightest opportunity, and he is starting to compliment your appearance or even your beauty. When you notice these it is good you return the gesture but it is best to be truthful about what you are complimenting him on. Don’t just compliment him for the sake of it, for example you say “Your shoes are nice” whereas they are dirty, it will most likely sound sarcastic to him and can immediately turn him off, whereas you are trying to impress him. So commend him only when he deserves it so that you won’t look foolish. You can be flirty in commending his appearance or the way he speaks. You can say “I love your hairstyle, it makes you look charming” hearing that from you will definitely make him feel good. After all, who doesn’t like compliments?
8.REMIND HIM OF THE GOOD OLD TIMES YOU HAD TOGETHER: The good times you had together was definitely what you both enjoyed in the past and it is one of the best way to remind him how you are compatible, how you made a good couple. Remembering the good times brings about good memories. But you have to be careful in this process because he is not yet your man, even though he was your man and you had good memories to reminisce about. So, it is better to say this during an ongoing conversation so that It won’t be so obvious. If this is done in the right manner he will also remember those memories and it will make him smile, it can even trigger the emotions that will make him begging for more. So, if he asks you if you both can make more of that moment, do not hesitate to say “YES” after all it is what you want!
9.YOUR CONFIDENCE IS IMPORTANT: It is a known fact that confidence is one of the most major ingredient we need to pursue our daily goals. A person who lacks confident will most likely not achieve his goal. This is also applicable when you are chasing the man of your dreams, so if you lack the required confidence you won’t be able to carry out the required task, even if you could, your effort may just be in futility. Confidence will make you approach him without any sense of danger or being scared. Self-confidence makes you believe that you are good enough for any man. Everybody has his or her own attribute that makes us special. So always remember you are worthy to be loved
10.BE UNIQUE: There is every tendency that several women are also on the horizon and are willing to do anything to get his attention and even make him fall in love with them, so how do stay ahead of the queue? You need to stand out, differentiate yourself from the rest – Do something different from the rest, as this should give you advantage over others. Since you were lovers, this should also give you an edge. But you also have to maximize this edge to your full advantage. Show him why you are better than the rest, let him be convinced that he better reunites with you instead of following another girl.
11.IMPROVE ON YOURSELF: Remember you guys are no longer together for one reason or the other but since you are still interested in him, you must be ready to give up some certain things and improve the overall personality of yourself (positively) So that when you guys eventually reunites you won’t have to quarrel over what previously kept you apart. That is not to say you were the sole reason you guys separated but you should analyse the reason you are no longer together and try to make amends to all the fault from your corner.
12.HANG OUT: So, things are going as planned as he begins to look for you again, why don’t you hang out? Do something you both find interesting and fun. It doesn’t have to be in the biggest restaurant in town, just work with something you both are convenient with. Yes, we have discussed how your dressing should always suit the occasion, so this occasion shouldn’t be an exception. Your dressing should be dependent on how you both have planned to spend your time together. But it is advisable not to look showy at first. Make sure you look good and wear the clothing he will admire. Always remember to wear that pretty smile that is capable of driving any man crazy. This moment is very important so you need to avoid doing anything that can piss him off. Don’t look tensed, emotional, weary, sad – all these can be a huge turn off for him.
After all said, it would be unfair if I do not acknowledge the fact that getting a man to like you again is not always an easy task. It requires a lot of patience and perseverance to achieve your goal. Be positive, don’t be obsessed and overexcited when you meet. And in another case it can be easy because he may also be longing for the opportunity to get back to you, but maybe due to manner in which you separated, pride or reasons best known to him he can decide to stay off. But if you read, digest and follow the tips on this article, the tendency are high that he will eventually be your man again. You also have to note that this article might not be applicable to all cases, because people behaviour, personality, mode of thinking, custom & tradition, religion e.t.c are different, thus we won’t always make the same decision and reason the same way. But this article is a fundamental guide on how to make your man love you again. And all things being equal, things will go according to the plan.