How to Contact Your Ex After A Breakup?

How to Contact Your Ex After A Breakup?
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How to Contact Your Ex After A Breakup?

How to Contact Your Ex Boyfriend after a Breakup

Your ex boyfriend isn’t going to call you unless he misses you or thinks that he’s going to
lose you forever to another guy. At the end of the day it’s a bit of a balancing act. Contact
with your ex needs to happen at right time in the right way.
As you read through this article, you’ll learn how to make your ex boyfriend miss you as
well as how to effectively break the ice and make contact with your ex boyfriend after a
breakup.

How to Contact Your Ex After A Breakup? How to Contact Your Ex Boyfriend after a Breakup

Ideally you want your ex to contact you first. The way to do this is to cut off all contact with
your ex boyfriend. This means no Facebook, no emails, texts or phone calls at all. It’s quite
simple in theory but it’s rather difficult to put into practice because of the history between
you two and the emotions surrounding the break up.

Perhaps you’re asking yourself “how does not contacting my ex boyfriend make him want
me?” That’s an excellent question; allow me to explain.

In general women are more emotionally invested in relationships than men which means
that after a break up women will still be hung up on their ex’s and want to get back with
them. Men understand this and expect it, so when you contact them directly after a break
up, you unknowingly give them control which allows them to control the break up and
string you along.

However, when you drop off the face of the earth and accept the break up two things
happen.

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1. You give him the time and space he needs to think about your relationship and the
break up.
2. He starts to miss you.
But what if you didn’t do this? What if you called or texted him repeatedly? Have you lost
your chance to get back together? No. You did those things because they made you feel
good. Your actions allowed you to feel connected to a bond that was broken with someone
you invested time and effort in to.

But back to the original question of why hasn’t my ex boyfriend called me yet? The answer
is simpler than you think. The reason your ex hasn’t called you yet is because you haven’t
given him enough time and space to miss you. As soon as you give him that, little by little,
he’ll start missing you. And what’s more, if you do it right he’ll start to panic. He’ll wonder:
Is she going out with someone else? Is she totally over me? This is the point when he’ll call
you.

However, if you still want to call your ex, but not come off as needy or desperate then I’ve
outlined 3 types of calls you can make to your ex that will keep your intentions under the
radar.

1. The “I Found Your Stuff” Call – Look for something that belongs to your ex boyfriend
that he left at your house, as well as call him offering to return it (or have him pick it up). If
you want your ex boyfriend to call you back, ensure you make the call at the time you know
he won’t be home, so you can leave a message. He will be curious to talk with you, if you
have broken contact for a while. Ensure the thing you are calling about is important, and
not something insignificant like a music CD or hairbrush.

2. The “Congratulations!” Call – Call to congratulate him on something. Maybe he got
promoted, your ex boyfriend’s birthday, graduated from school, or accolade or received
some other kind of award at the time the relationship has ended. This is another good
excuse to call and wish him the best. However, calling when he is not home will definitely
get your ex boyfriend to call you back, which is your target.

3. The “How’s Your Mom Doing?” Call – If you got close to his family at the time you dated
your ex boyfriend, asking about how they are doing is nice. Especially in the situation
where your ex has a brother or sister about to go to college for the first time, relatives in
the hospital about to undergo surgery… this is a great excuse to call him asking “Hey, how’s
your dad been doing?” or whatever the situation. Since you have not called for a while your
ex boyfriend won’t suspect at once that you have hidden agenda, and will even be happy
that you called to know how his relatives are doing

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